Isn't that the last thing you want to hear coming out of your significant others mouth.
Immediately I take it as a comment about my weight and the relationship.
Immediately I can feel insecurities creeping upon me
Immediately I feel like this is the comment that is the beggining of the end.
So, in record time I respond back, "well that leaves me out of the group".
And he says, "Why??"
I say, "Cause I am not a skinny girl".
And he says, "yeah, you are".
LMAO... really.. now really...
For the life of me, the last thing I would ever clasify myself as is a skinny girl.
Not now, not ever..
And then I think, ut oh.. he just realized what he said and he doesn't want to make me feel bad.
So, I press the issue just a bit more..
"So, I know I am not skinny", I reply
"Does that affect how you see me?"
He says, " why do you always see your self as overweight and fat, you are not and I wish you could see that".
Seriously, I don't see my self as anything less than overweight..
When do these self imposed image issues fade with us... why cant I just see me for me and let it BE!!