17 March 2011

RSVP.. regrets

All,

Just a quick note..
I am wishing those of you planning to attend the NYC brunch an absolutely marvelous get together.
Kristin (the sweetie that she is, continues to amaze me) and she is an absolute star in my book.

I have passed on my regrets.. but will love to read the updates on your blog.

I hope you all understand.. I am just not ready..
It has been seven weeks since I lost Mark.
And I continue to face each day with such uncertainty.

Emotionaly.. I am crap
Logically... I need to function.

This is life ... and somewhere I need to find my place..
No worries, I just need to adapt..

hugs XO

19 comments:

  1. I'm sure they will miss you, Barb, but I know they all understand as the rest of us do that you are grieving and have to take care of you right now. I think Chicago wi be a nice distraction in September and I can't wait to see you. Take care of you. Much love!

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  2. Sending you love Barb. I'm sure they understand. You need to take care of yourself right now...that is the most important thing.

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  3. Just knowing we will all get to see you in Chicago in the Fall is wonderful. I wish I could be at the NYC get together, too, as they are going to have a great time!

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  4. I'll be thinking of you and sending you all the love we have!

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  5. Of course we all understand. And if you wake up Sunday and decide to come after all, we will welcome you and your girls with giants hugs and gianter margaritas. xoxo

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  6. Barb, can I just say you look so amazing in your profile pic. Off topic, I know.

    I'm sure you are doing the right thing for you. You never need to do anything you are not comfortable with or ready for, of course. (Selfishly, I do hope you make it to Chicago!)

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  7. Totally understand! A little bummed not to see you, but don't worry your pretty little head about it. XOXO

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  9. I'm not going to say it doesn't suck, but I understand. I was looking forward to giving you a real hug, but I'll just have to hug you twice as hard in Chicago.

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  10. Love ya Barb....you are always in my thoughts.

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  11. Remember what I told you...up until Saturday 9AM you can call me and we'll come pick you up on the way to the train.
    Take care of yourself...only you will know when it's time to venture out.
    I love you.

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  12. Completely understand, though will miss you!! Next time...

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  13. You do what you can - when you can. Period.

    Oh and I love you.

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  14. I completely understand Barb. Will miss you terribly and send many hugs from here. xoxo

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  15. So sorry to hear that! (But on a purely selfish level, that makes me feel better about not having to miss the brunch.) Will hope that we both will be there the next time around. Until then, I'm sending you a big hug! :)

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  16. Love your blog! I am your newest follower! :) Erin

    www.purplebookbloggingmommy.blogspot.com

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  17. Barbara, Let's set up a DC and Philly meet up when you are ready. Hugs to you~!

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  18. How's my B doing? Maybe one day we can make some sort of plan to meet up... could be that I might have some 'meetings' down in your neck of the woods.
    We'll chat.
    Miss hearing from you-- post whatever/ whenever. Love and hugs!!

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  19. Just checking in on you. You have to do things your own way and at least you know that and are doing that. I've been thinking about you and look forward to your posts letting everyone know how you're doing. I hope you have a great week!

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