10 June 2011

********** B Y O C ******************* Crazy Friday!!1

1. How and why did you first start blogging? And how long have you been blogging?

Wow, I would really have to think about this.. because my first blog followed my husband's journey and battle with cancer so I would have to say October 2007.
Then I started my Band blog .. that was in September 2009.

I really find blogging to be an emotional outlet for myself, but as you have all have shown me it is a place to be showered with love, comforted and realize the wonderful world of blogging allows for you to connect with people on so many different levels.. and I love you guys!
2. Tell me about your perfect mate – if you could invent him/her?

Well, I did have the perfect mate.. but if I had invent a new mate here is what I would put on my wish list.
2. Blonde/Brown hair
3. No hairy back, no facial hair
4. Self sufficient
5. Gentleman and manners in tact
6. Can drive at night
7. Can cook a romantic meal
8. Can sing me a love song or write a love letter
9. Will watch over me, and give me hugs without me asking
10. Misses me when I am not around

3. Do you wear fake eyelashes? Do you want to? Do you use glue or self-stick ones? Do you like how they look?

I don't and have never, but I would love to try it, but it am fearful it would get bunched up and look like a dead fly on my eye lid

4. Let’s say money was no object and neither was time off to recover – are you an advocate of plastic surgery after weight loss?

Ok, you all know that I have outed myself, Three weeks from today, I get my new boobs, neck lift and eye lift.. yes, I am plopping down a fist full of cash to tune up the engine.
If I could have fit in the tummy tuck I would have, but I am up to a six hour surgery as it is and the doc doesnt want to push it any further.  I am excited as all get out, and scared sh*tless at the same time.

5. Repeat question. Summarize your week in blog land and in real life.

• Blog life, well now that my frustrations with blogger have been resolved I have been trying to read and comment.. I know once I am home recovering I will probably blogging my little heart out.

• Real life sucks!!.. work is driving me freakin nuts.. the hours are getting longer and longer and its seems my projects keep growing.. AHHH.. CALGON TAKE ME AWAY..
I am getting a bit more social.. and find that to be a bit of a relief.. Its been a crappy year in summary, but I am a survivor.. so message to me.. move forward girl!!


  1. I love you Barb!!! You are a true survivor...and one hot mama!!!

  2. You are awesome for going after something you want. I love it! Great BYOC

  3. Love reading your blog because you are filled with spirit and strength.

  4. You are gonna be an even hotter tomale! Can't wait to hug you!

  5. I so so so love you Barb!!

  6. "No hairy backs." Ha! Amen to that. How do you discover this when you first meet them? Have a date at the local water park? Or once you get comfortable with him say, "Excuse me, but that HAS to go." ?